
After the fall of gladiatorial sports, the Colosseum was unused for a number of years, allowing nature to consume it. That itself is not unusual. What is unusual is this--it became covered with exotic plants not native to the area.




Source
Matz, D. Daily Life of the Ancient Romans. Greenwood Press, 2002.

In Ancient Rome, phallus symbols were extremely common--they were used for good luck, fertility and to give directions (usually to point the way to a brothel). Roman generals might paint a phallus on the side of his carriage to display his triumph. 

I flaked out on N and M. I’m not particularly surprised with myself. I’m one of those people who tends to finish things, but not without a couple of flake outs along the way.
I was getting burnt out, and I don’t do things that aren’t fun unless it is absolutely necessary. So I disappeared for a few days, but now I am back and excited.
That said, Ancient Rome returns tomorrow with phallus windchimes. Today I want to share a little more about myself.
This is hard for me because I’m not a very open person. I’m quiet and introverted. There was a time I would have used the word shy to describe myself, but the term isn’t fitting anymore. I have grown out of being shy--perhaps because I no longer feel intimidated about being myself--but I still have many of the characteristics of a shy person.
I wondered for many years why I am still quiet and introverted while not feeling shy. At some point, I realized that I’m just not an open person--and not just in relation to others, also in respect to myself.
What I mean is that I don’t feel emotions very deeply. I see others around me reacting with a whole entourage of emotions--anger, frustration, joy, love, etc--I feel them, but I don’t feel them as deeply as others seem to.
Examples? I haven’t cried since 2004, and I cried then because I was trying to quit smoking and was extremely frustrated with my addiction (I did quit btw--just passed the five year mark!). But it is more than just methods of relieving stress--I’ve never been angry with my husband. Never. We’ve had a few discussions, and he now rinses out his milk glass instead of leaving it on the counter for the yuckie white circle at the bottom of the glass to set, but I’ve never felt anger toward him. In fact, I can’t remember the last time I was angry with anything. I don’t get frustrated with friends or traffic. But I don’t feel overly excited either. When Riley was born, I wasn’t ecstatic. I looked at him, and I thought--Wow. A little person. I’ve grown to love him very deeply and steadily, but there was never a flood of emotions.
For a long time, I have been embarrassed to admit this. Like maybe I’m not living life as deeply and fully as others. I don’t want someone to pity me--to say that my life is flat.
But then I realized that I love my life. Deep emotions or not, I consider myself a happy person, and I wouldn’t change who I am--so it doesn’t matter so much what other people think.
And I realized there must be other people like me. Others who watch the people around them and are amazed by how intense they seem to be about everyone and everything. Even little things, like when co-workers get frustrated with something, but it just doesn’t bother us. Others who suspect that their lives don’t have as many ups and downs.
Have you ever thought that you don’t feel emotions as deeply as other people? Does this concern you?




An impluvium is a feature in a ancient Roman home. Roman homes (well, the homes owned by wealthier individuals) had open air atriums in the central areas. The impluvium was located in the atrium and was designed to hold rainwater that fell in though the open space. Rain water would fall into the impluvium and the trickle down into a kind of well so the water could be used immediately or in the future. 
Apparently, there were quite a few napkin thieves in Rome--individuals who would go to parties and steal napkins. The most well-known napkin thief was Hermogenes. The rumor was that Hermogenes was so skilled at stealing napkins that he could find a way to nab one even if a fellow diner watched his right hand while holding his left.
Hermogenes didn’t limit himself to swiping napkins at dinner parties. During gladiatorial shows, spectators sometimes waived handkerchiefs as signs of approval for a wounded gladiator. Hermogenes would manage to steal these handkerchiefs--once he was able to pilfer four of them during one celebration.
At some dinner parties where Hermogenes was a guest, hosts stopped providing napkins. Hermogenes began stealing tablecloths and the valances from couches.
What makes me love this story is that Hermogenes continued to get invitations to dinner parties. He probably got some invitations because of his reputation. I love quirky characters who break the rules--they are fun to write and fun to read. I’d love to have Hermogenes over for dinner.
Source
Matz, D. Daily Life of the Ancient Romans. Greenwood Press, 2002.

How have I resisted bringing up gladiators for this long?
Although, this post is less about gladiators and more about Emperor Commodus. He gets a bad rap from the Gladiator film. Not that this representation isn’t partly deserved, but as is usually the case in most movies and novels, it isn’t the entire story.
One aspect of Gladiator that is true is that Commodus enjoyed fighting in the arena. He gained about 1,100 victories to his name in gladiatorial combat--some against various animals and some against men. He was a showman--he was known to wear women’s dresses in the boxes of the amphitheater. He also appeared completely naked, except for his sword, for a fight once. There are a variety of sources that state that these fights were not entirely fair and that gladiators fought against him using wooden swords and the animal were shackled. The extent to which these competitions were rigged is not clear.
What is clear is that Commodus loved the games. Despite the fact that the status of gladiators in Rome was equal to slaves, Commodus would drink with them and carry his gladiatorial honors proudly (he was awarded the title Captain of the Secutores’ 620 times). He even considered moving to the gladiatorial barracks.
And he did all this while keeping his day job: Emperor of Rome.
Most writers struggle, like Commodus, trying to balance responsibilities and loves. There are always blogs about not being able to quit a day job or how writing won’t get one rich. I usually stop reading whenever a blogger starts talking about such things. Not because I don’t believe it, but because I just don’t care.
I love having “day” jobs. I’ve had more than I want to admit (mostly because I lost count a long time ago). Some haven’t been the funnest, but all have combined to help create my life experiences--those experiences that I bring with me into writing. From being a listings editor for Writer’s Market (talk about boring) to an attorney to an English teacher to a Subway Sandwich Artist to my current profession as a dog walker, all have taught me about life and writing.
Commodus wouldn’t have been the same person if he wasn’t Emperor. And while none of my jobs have involved governing a nation, I wouldn’t be the same without them either. I hope to keep having new experiences--to keep meeting new people and learning new things, which means I’m not done with day jobs--even if I am able to make a living from writing.
By the way, Commodus’ love of being a gladiator didn’t kill him. He was killed at home by his training partner, not in the arena as Gladiator depicted.
Tomorrow
H is for Hermogenes the napkin thief
Source
Nossov, K., Gladiator: Rome’s Bloody Spectacle, Osprey Publishing, 2009.
There were a lot of great suggestions for F today, but after spending some time researching, I decided to focus on Fa L'Americana’s suggestion of Fasti--the Roman Calendar. The Fasti became the register of days for legal and public business as well as religious festivals. Some examples are pictured below.
It is hard to summarize what the Fasti contained because they were unique to the different regions of Rome. In addition, there were many aspects to the calendars--I decided to limit the discussion to the Kalends, Nones and Ides.
Each month had specially named days that were based on the lunar cycle.
-Kalends fell on the first of the Roman month--the first appearance of the crescent moon.
-Nones fell on the 7th day of months with 31 days and the 5th day of all shorter months--the quarter moon.
-Ides fell on the 15th of months with 31 days and the 13th of all other months--the full moon.
When looking the Roman Fasti, the cycles of the months based on the moon become vary apparent--much more apparent than in our current calendar. It made me think of my current WIP in terms of years and months. The entire WIP representing a year, and each chapter representing an individual month. I think a lot about the structure of the entire WIP. I’m a visual person, so I have graphs and spreadsheets and all sorts of nonsense to represent the novel’s arc. What I often overlook are the smaller arcs in each chapter. Does each chapter have a Kalends, Nones and Ides that help guide the reader?
I outlined the Kalends, Nones, and Ides for the first twelve chapters in my WIP. I considered the Kalends to be the inciting incident (the first glimpse of the moon), Nones the rising action (the growth of the moon) and Ides to be the climax (the full moon--the point when everything changes). I was pleasantly surprised with some chapters and mortified by the lack of Nones or Ides in others. Looking at the novel in this way also incited my excitement--which is always appreciated.
Thanks to Fa L'Americana for the suggestion. Please head on over and check out her blog--she is a fabulous A-Zer who blogs about her life in Sicily.
And..F has a double meaning today. Free books. Who doesn't like free books? Gina is having a fun contest over at her blog, so go get yourself entered. And, as Gina pointed out, she is Roman--so I totally get credit for a twofer today.
Examples of Fasti:




Tomorrow
G is for Gladiatorial Moonlighting
Sources
Calendars though the Ages Webexhibits, Institute for Dynamic Educational Advancement.
Matz, D. Daily Life of the Ancient Romans. Greenwood Press, 2002.

Between 27 B.C. (the beginning of Augustus’ reign--he is depicted in the picture) and 476 A.D (the fall of Rome) there were 112 Roman emperors. About half of them died from natural causes, illness or in battle. The other half weren’t so “lucky” and were either murdered or committed suicide. Twelve of them were deposed and mutilated.
The worst year for emperors was 236 A.D. Six emperors died that year. One was killed in battle and then four were murdered. The next emperor made it to the end of the year--no doubt with a few glances over his shoulder.
These stats remind me how fiction often splits from real life. We aren't accustomed to losing at least half of our leaders in such dramatic fashions, but it happens all the time in fiction. As a reader you never know if someone is going to make it to the end of the novel. Heck, as a writer sometimes you don’t know if someone is going to make it to the end of the novel. I love the way that anything can happen when writing, and if you don’t like how it turned out, you can always go back and axe a character or two.
Tomorrow
I have no idea. F is proving to be a challenge.
Source
Online Encyclopedia of Roman Rulers and their Families, ed. Richard D. Weigel, Western Kentucky University

During the reign of Augustus (ruled 27 B.C. to 14 A.D.), there was a dolphin who lived in Lake Lucrinus, a lake in Southern Italy that still exists today. The picture is of modern day Lake Lucrinus.
The dolphin took a liking to a young boy who frequented the lakeshore and fed the dolphin bread. The boy called the dolphin Simon (Greek for sub-nose). Simon met the boy at the lakeshore whenever the boy called for him. Eventually Simon even gave the boy rides around the lake on his back. The boy’s school was on the opposite side of the lake, and Simon ferried him back and forth daily.
This went on for a number of years until the boy died from a childhood illness. Everyday Simon continued to swim to the place where he had met the boy until the dolphin eventually passed away.
I love this story for the same reason that I love certain books: the relationship. There are some relationships that are so beautiful I can read about them over and over. I strive to create such a wonderful pairing.
Of course the relationships in novels are rife with conflict and not all of them can be classified as beautiful. But at the core, there is something that pulls two characters together. Whether it is friendship, love, dependence, family or the desire for revenge--there is a hinge that keeps two character joined. One of my favorite aspects of writing is creating that hinge. And then, of course, trying to rip it apart.
Tomorrow
E is for Emperor: The most dangerous job in Rome
Source
Matz, D. Daily Life of the Ancient Romans. Greenwood Press, 2002.
And Wikipedia...did I just say that? Don’t worry--I verified everything I found there

Ever wonder what people used before toilet paper? While there were a variety of options around the world, the most common in Rome was the communal sponge. A sea sponge was kept next to the toilet or commode (depending on your wealth--those with means often had indoor toilets with running water). The sponge was typically attached to a stick and utilized to--well, you get the point.
The sponge was washed in a variety ways. In public restrooms (more on this later in the Challenge), the toilet had two holes. One for you and one for the sponge. The sponge had its home in fresh running water to keep it clean. At home, it is likely that the sponge would be cleaned in a bucket of salt water.
Certainly other things were used in addition to the sponge--cloth, moss, paper, etc. But it appears that toilet paper, as we know it, didn’t exist until 6th Century AD--a solid 650 years after my current WIP.
The difficulties I have with the idea of the communal sponge is what is left behind. I wonder how Romans felt about the sponge.
In thinking about this topic, I wondered if the sponge is like the “traditional story lines” that are returned to story after story. Some say that there are only seven original plots that we use over and over or that everything has already been written. I don’t believe that. Like on the sponge, every writer leaves their individual germs behind. Give two writers the same plot line and the same characters, and they will both write different novels. The characters will respond in different ways and develop different motivations. Just like we are unique, our stories are unique. There may be some universal truths or commonalties--but the only person who can tell your story is you.
Tomorrow
D is for a Dolphin named Simon

Martial, an Ancient Roman epigrammatist, had a few words to say about almost everyone he knew. A few of these choice words were reserved for his friend Marinus about Marinus’ hairstyle. Marinus was bald and let the fringes of his naked dome grow long enough that he could comb them over the top in the attempt to look like he had a full head of hair. Without the help of Aqua Net (did I just date myself?), whenever a gust of wind came up, his long tendrils of hair would return to their place--dangling on the side of his head.
Martial’s advice: “Admit your old, Marinus, and quit trying to give the appearance of two people.”
But that is the fun about writing--you get to be two people. You can be five hundred people. I love getting to try on someone’s skin, walk around and survive though the consequences of their decisions. And there is nothing like being someone else to remind you about yourself.
It's unlikely that someone would accuse Julius Caesar of being two people (to his face at least), but he also had the same problem. There are a few references that the famous consul may have been one of the originators of the comb over. He also wore his laurel wreath often--likely for the same reason my husband wears a baseball hat.
Apparently Cleopatra recommended to Caesar he try a mix of charred and ground mice, horse teeth, bear grease and deer. It is unclear if Caesar was supposed to use this combination topically or orally. Unfortunately, whatever he did with it, it didn’t work for him.
Monday
C is for Communal Sponge: Why I love toilet paper
Sources
Matz, D. Daily Life of the Ancient Romans. Greenwood Press, 2002.
Witworth, D. Even Julius Caesar struggled to hide thinness of his thatch. The Sunday Times, 2007.